Sometimes we become attached to our outcome. We think it’s the outcome that we want. The attachment causes stress, it causes longing, it causes desire and creates a tension between where you are now and where you want to be.
One of the biggest things I’ve learnt in my years is detaching from the outcome.
John Grinder once said ‘An Outcome is a conscious mind construct set by the unconscious to obscure the real goal’ (or something like that!)
TheDesktopCoach works by allowing you to address core issues while you work. This software helps reprogram old belief systems, remove old emotional patterns and assist you in focusing more fully on a new reality.
How?
I want to show you this….The Desktop Coach.
There are not many things that I’d promote…but this is one of them.
For some years I’ve been looking at the desktop s/w and had an interest in the binaural beats stuff floating around. Also had a look at Robert Dilts s/w over the years.
This is pretty cool and clever stuff.
Now I’m not agreeing with ALLLLL of the claims… but from experience (I use this too) it goes a pretty long way..
and hell it’s free!!
SO Yes I am promoting this and YES you will see my name on the inside. So you have a personal assurance that it’s 100% worth you checking it out.
Rob
Just CLICK the link below of the picture below to get taken to it straight away.
Anxiety afflicts many people and comes in different shapes or forms. It’s one of the bggiest blights to performance, happiness and health. There are many anxiety programmes on the market, many anxiety books and many coaches willing to help people with anxiety.
This video looks at anxiety in a slightly different way and helps you to ‘put it into a box’ and work out, what’s worth worrying about and what isn’t. This video on anxiety also gives you a simple strategy at the end to get you back into control.
Change the drivers to anxiety
Anxiety isn’t just about the feelings, but about the relationship between the feelings and the way you percieve your life and existence of your life. Changing the feelings to anxiety is what most people try and do, yet the feelings will change by addressing the things you can or cannot control. That is, change something else that drives the feelings and the feelings will change.
To change the way you feel ( your anxiety), change your perception of what you can or cannot control.
2012 is the name of one of my favourite albums by a Canadian Band call RUSH. So I’m liking this year already
I’m going to be posting a short video soon on the Q&A Section related to Stress and what to do about it, so look out for that one. Should be up in a couple of days.
Then from next week…
We’re going to get right into it again.
ANTI Social
Having had a month off from twitter, facebook, emails, videos, websites and work in general! It’s been a great time to re-fresh, pause and think what’s next.
Having delivered quite a few videos in a short space of time I think it’s always time for a pause and re-think about the next steps and that’s what I’ll be focusing on very soon – where this site is headed and what’s in it for you.
The best way for you to get involved is to sign up to the facebook page or on the RHS and add your details, this way you have a voice in saying what you want to see too.
So…
From Winter to Spring
Though the last 4 years have been a cold winter for many people – there is a change in the air, a change as if we’re heading out of Winter to Spring.
So to a great Spring. Cheers.
To a great 2012 (I’ve got good feeling about this year
The Alchemy Wheel is designed to help you find the right place for where you don’t have the Feel Good Factor. This allows you to understand ‘WHY’ you have the habits you have and do the things you do. In a sense it lets you see very quickly problematic contexts of your life as well as giving you a snapshot view on your overall LIFE patterns.
The Alchemy Wheel is completely scalable and allows you to drill down into the minutae of behaviours if so desired.
